An open letter to Raos

[Diogenes]

It was wrong of me to bait you into being the thing you are, Very Wrong! 
 By not having everyone embrace your view of thing must be very anxiety creating for you.
 And that anxiety will become a disease causing trait releasing hormones that in an overabundance and cause an imbalance in you body chemistry. Many ulcer sufferers have proven to be prone to be in need of controlling the thoughts and behaviours of others as a means of coping with their own anxieties. And I should have recognised the pattern as I have come across it before, especially in the gifted and intelligent.     
  For young people the social pressures can be excruciatingly painful due their not fitting in with those they know not to be their equals .

I am not who you would have me be and make no apologies for that do I have charater flaws?
 Of course. I am as weak as the next person in some areas and weaker in others  and have strength thaand talents some believe they are incapable of having, but enough about me
It is you I am concerned about as I write this.
None of this is meant to be condescending and that may be difficult for you see as you have cast me in the role of a lying bigot who discriminates about all Jewish peoples.
 I should have treated you with kindness and understanding when you denigrated what I wrote and me as well, it would have been the Christian thing to do. And I did not do it. Instead I stubbornly dug my heels in refusing to budge as I saw no willingness on your part to display that you wished of me, towards me.
 Whatever you do, do not take medication for your anxiety. Learn to control it through repatterning  your brain as can be found it “The Brain that Changes Itself”

 I will forgive you in advance for any negative reaction you choose to direct my way and take them as a sign of that which causes you to place effort into trying to bring me around to your kind of thinking.
 
Now if you can accept this as a heartfelt communication directed to you per haps we both can accept one-another as we are and recognise each other potentials rather than perceived weaknesses
 Sincerely Dio 

 

[Raos]

If there can be a backhanded compliment, why not a backhanded apology?  For future reference, though, the entire point of such a thing is to be subtle, not plain as day.

[Diogenes]

Thank you for sharing that Raos. I will take it under consideration and may have answers sometime in the future.

 I did though take into consideration that it might be difficult for you to accepts this change of attitude and approach. That is understandable
 Perhaps in time you may gain the willingness to do so In the meantime all I can do is remain optimistic that a new found graciousness in your replies might take root